Happiness- An ingredient in a source called - 'Life' !! :-)

"Well who doesn't have problems in their life? Everyone's life is like a roller coaster ride ! Life sometimes greet you at its best, gives you the things you always wanted & make you rejoice about that !, gives you many pride moments to which you can flaunt about here & there & lots more... whereas sometimes Life takes a twist like every picture has a twist.There are circumstances which will leave you almost helpless, aloof, sad.The times which make you realize you are alone in this big world and there is really no body to hear u, but then that's life. It happens with everyone. Nobody means nobody has escaped this phase of life. No truly, its a matter of fact ! But trust me, it will just make u grow stronger, make u capable of facing the worst situations..It will just grow u as an individual.. Its been said - "Behind every philosopher there is a pain deep inside & that feelings develop into their art." some wise person explained me all this one fine day; when I was hell lot disturbed , I used to stay in some virtual own world of mine, when I was badly messed up with my life, wen I almost ruined myself.. :/

Today, at this point of time,when I myself have nurtured these things within me & have started living a happy life; I am feeling proud to tell that now I have been teaching this to few other people & I get happy when people follow it & tell me - "it worked" !!
You will find happiness in each & every small thing existing on earth..Its just about the "feel" ! Happiness has no ends, its infinite ! A person should keep on living his life with a hope that today/ tommorow the sorrows has to end, like after every night there is a day, so after every pain, there is a happy day! :-))

so here it is...

"Happiness? How & where to find it? Its just not in my destiny"- I have heard people saying this more often. My reaction to them is "oh god, they are so damn cynic. I wish they should get a life !" To be frank, for me u can find happiness anywhere & everywhere. And yes i mean it ! Its not that a person who owns a BMW or a mercedes is the happiest person. If people think so, then they are the dumbest creatures on earth. Happiness is something which u feel inside from the small things u do like - Helping some old man in crossing a road gives u an undescribable happiness, helping ur mom in cooking the food, playing with ur siblings & getting smaller in age like them, in listening music which leaves u almost unsaid. !

And most important HAPPINESS IS FREE OF COST ! yes it doesn't charge you people. you will get it across u , behind u, inside u & almost everywhere. :P

Unlike humans, happiness is NEVER PARTIAL ! Its something which a rich & a poor, both can have !

I have seen often times that a poor person who struggle to earn for his family's livelihood is the more happier person than one having a 4bhk flat. A poor person has his family with him in his good & bad times, his wife & his kids are his moral support ; irrespective of poverty, he has something which is priceless..! yes, the love from his kids he gets, make him feel better after his every failure & it just motivates him in every aspect of his life. The way his wife cares about him , the way she boost him up after his every failed attempt just makes him so strong that he gets ready to fight with the world for them. Yes, that's what I meant happiness. Its doing the things for ur family, for ur closed one's gives u the never-ending happiness.!


To add on few things, never care about the world, just do the things what gives u happiness. Life is one, make sure u have a wonderful journey throughout..who has seen tomorrow? no one.! So, today is what you call your day , its all yours.:D Go dance, sing aloud, party with friends, forget the pain & stress.. :P

P.S :Always remember,Life is one ! Enjoy it like a long weekend :D  :D  

Fall in love with your life ! ;) :D

Me & Myself- A great thought indeed !!

To begin with, I am amazed at the miracles of nature. I enjoy gazing at the sky, watching the liberal birds enjoying their flight & I think how we as humans are struggling everyday for our livelihood. I enjoy watching colourful butterflies enhancing the grandeur of the vicinity, how sturdy mountains are standing tall & cloaked by d clouds, But amidst this I look inward into my heart & ponder....Do I love myself? For some seconds I was blank, because the answer certainly surprised me O.o O_o


All these years in a futile search of a friendly ear, I have learnt now to speak to myself. & I love the loneliness I have been endowed with ! Somewhere deep down, my heart cries, but I have learnt now to wipe my own tears. I have stopped looking for a shoulder to rest upon & cry. In the process of becoming "A good friend" of others, I forgot to be good to myself. How harsh have I been to myself....?? :/ :/


In my efforts to make other people feel eminent, I have so ruthlessly ignored myself. I failed to realize that I could be the BEST FRIEND of myself- A friend whose presence would remain immortal & ever-lasting ! :|
I am very sure many of you have went through the same. Guys Try being independent, once in a while spend some quality of time alone & know urself as a person & enhance ur qualities & become the best friend of urself !


Bring a change in you, Always remember "change for the good is always better ! "